tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6315924973509402943.post4899405349247423626..comments2023-05-02T08:25:13.691-04:00Comments on Dirty Laundry: BFF's?The Laundresshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17438730180497804360noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6315924973509402943.post-70982826954835795492008-04-05T18:31:00.000-04:002008-04-05T18:31:00.000-04:00Those one sided friendships are really draining. ...Those one sided friendships are really draining. I think some women put less importance on having those female friend relationships, so it isn't a priority for them. It isn't anything you and I do, just a different set of priorities.<BR/><BR/>I have my family and my great family of 3 boys (counting the hubs) but there is still something about a girlfriend. And it's important to me, yet I can't Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04455637064686856773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6315924973509402943.post-464610329667015442008-04-05T02:14:00.000-04:002008-04-05T02:14:00.000-04:00*hugs*I am so sorry; I wish we lived closer. I'd ...*hugs*<BR/><BR/>I am so sorry; I wish we lived closer. I'd be your constant! Or at least more of one than what you had. I dealt with so many of the same issues you are dealing with, and consider myself very lucky to have at last found some women who I know are truly there for me should I need them. And I've even been lucky enough to find some friends from my past, though with one or two of Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6315924973509402943.post-5167986725048559452008-04-04T23:10:00.000-04:002008-04-04T23:10:00.000-04:00big hugs to you, my friend. And a glass of wine. I...big hugs to you, my friend. And a glass of wine. <BR/><BR/>If you need anything, email, IM, whatever. I am here if you need to talk. <BR/><BR/>Yes, I am essentially a total stranger - BUT.... Houston is a great place to visit! Bring Fa...come hang out with all us wacky women here. Galveston (while it sucks itself) has a giant indoor water park. Supposed to be way fun. <BR/><BR/>You are the best..Trixie Twatwafflehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12712977707578497875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6315924973509402943.post-50820387518152865792008-04-04T10:26:00.000-04:002008-04-04T10:26:00.000-04:00I am going through the same thing with my BFF. He...I am going through the same thing with my BFF. He's a guy and he's really floating right now. I know I'll be there for him when he needs me, but it's not always the other way around and it hurts. <BR/><BR/>:( I very much understand, love.Ann(ie)https://www.blogger.com/profile/00671535020245819924noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6315924973509402943.post-9007471540101651302008-04-03T18:11:00.000-04:002008-04-03T18:11:00.000-04:00It is good that you are realizing this...although ...It is good that you are realizing this...although that doesn't necessarily make you feel any better.<BR/><BR/>I am much in the same boat as you are :) I passed through earlier doing the bloghunt, but wanted to come back :) You can find me at www.bosssanders.com<BR/><BR/>My email is bosssanders@gmail.com :)<BR/><BR/>xoxo<BR/>AshAshleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05535762749666630776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6315924973509402943.post-15344904108144462482008-04-03T08:06:00.000-04:002008-04-03T08:06:00.000-04:00hi JJ -- it is good that you are realizing this. ...hi JJ -- it is good that you are realizing this. you don't need this kind of one-sided relationship. there are some fantastic people out there who will knock your socks off with how much they care about you ... you will cross their paths. you are a sweetheart and soon, someone in your local life is going to grasp on to you and not let go ... but just love their new JJ friend.<BR/><BR/>but it sogratefultobemormon.wordpress.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13141321969690842348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6315924973509402943.post-85726426924048124352008-04-03T00:44:00.000-04:002008-04-03T00:44:00.000-04:00if i were closer, i'd be ringing your doorbell wit...if i were closer, i'd be ringing your doorbell with a bottle of wine and a pie.<BR/><BR/>and we would be bffs for sure.the planet of janethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11444337511603560544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6315924973509402943.post-36231937534252007132008-04-02T23:58:00.000-04:002008-04-02T23:58:00.000-04:00she's out there. maybe even next door. who knows?...she's out there. <BR/>maybe even next door. who knows?Pamelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05404943895800549273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6315924973509402943.post-45600267326480583552008-04-02T20:18:00.000-04:002008-04-02T20:18:00.000-04:00Awww I'm sorry. I too had a friend who I thought I...Awww I'm sorry. I too had a friend who I thought I was much closer to. Until she moved. Then it became really hard to keep the connection. She was the type that always has to be the dominant one. Then I got married. Had my own daughter.. realized that I don't much care for her parenting and we really don't have all that much in common. And I haven't spoken to her in a year. I was sad at first Sugarplum's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02267684039876543741noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6315924973509402943.post-55384747745469465372008-04-02T15:34:00.000-04:002008-04-02T15:34:00.000-04:00I can relate to so much of what you've said here. ...I can relate to so much of what you've said here. I have found that fostering relationships with women is really hard. I used to have a BFF in grammar school and high school and we had a huge fight before college and never regained the friendship as it was. I still mourn that. Since then, I have not been able to get close enough to someone to call them my best friend - with the exception of my Cristinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07245436504933052526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6315924973509402943.post-43916983872851498852008-04-02T11:34:00.000-04:002008-04-02T11:34:00.000-04:00Well, you saw this coming. That doesn't make it an...Well, you saw this coming. That doesn't make it any easier, though.<BR/><BR/>I have two very close friends (females) who are "floaters" as well. I miss talking to them, but they have obviously moved on with their lives.<BR/><BR/>Make that your new goal. Get out and meet some people. I'm sure you will find a new "BFF."Southern (in)Sanityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08161448234899521650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6315924973509402943.post-58367183629341416672008-04-02T09:30:00.000-04:002008-04-02T09:30:00.000-04:00My best friends have always been guys. I think wh...My best friends have always been guys. I think when you are young, tomboys are intimidating to other girls. (I am the tomboy here)<BR/><BR/>Recently, I have opened myself up to friendships with women. They've been great! I'm still getting used to it ... after all, they have about 30 more years of experience with this than I do.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there. In the meanwhile, you have the unending Moihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05422796516804813561noreply@blogger.com